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Dream Spirit Visitors

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A very common dream involves spirits visiting their loved ones.  Almost everyone who has lost someone experiences a visitation from their dearly departed.  Some dismiss this visit as part of the grieving process. While that may be partly true, a visit from a spirit is also a way for those who have crossed over to reassure their loved ones.There is a common theme, much like the recurring dream that you have to take a test you haven’t studied for.  In a dream where a spirit visits, you may be guided into a light filled room where you meet your loved one.  This soul may offer you a gift or say something special to you.Some have reported dreams  where they are able to communicate with someone they have lost years before.  In the dream they are able to feel the love around them. This type of dream can increase faith and build hope.  It is encouraging to know that love is eternal and lasts beyond death.

It helps those who are grieving to see their loved ones. It is comforting to know that we are not alone in our grief. This comfort can help them survive as they come to terms with their loss.

images (7)A visitation may also be a way to help heal the soul of the loved one themselves. Especially if they have unfinished business.  In this case the soul may be unable to rest until they have made their message known.  The message may be something simple such as an apology that needed to be said to something as intricately delivered as the specifics surrounding the circumstances of their death.

The messages from these dream visitors can also give us information about moving from one stage of life to another.   This can be signs of future reincarnation or other transitional news.

Sometimes when we dream of a lost loved one, it is actually a way for us to relive the best of our lives with our friend or family member.  These dreams come from our subconscious and not from the spiritual realm.

When we are truly visited by a lost loved one, it gives us hope that we are never truly alone and that we should have faith in God and in an Afterlife.

How can a psychic medium see the future?

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Whether you want to communicate with your beloved ones from the far side or you want to know what will happen in the future, a psychic medium can help you. It was proven that a psychic medium is not only capable of predicting and seeing the future, but also they can communicate with the spirits of those who have passed on.

How useful are psychic’s insights?

We used to see psychics in movies help investigators to see beyond space and time, however in real life, psychics are more trusted now and they are used by investigators to help them detect the offender  through their ability to communicate with the victims and conduct interrogations on them.

Why people seek psychic mediums?

A lot of people like to communicate with their passed loved ones from time to time and psychic mediums help them communicate with their spirits to find answers to unresolved questions they have. Also psychic mediums became very popular, because they also provide n depth visions about the future. They use what is known as (Third eye) to see the future and it’s capable of seeing things beyond time and space.

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Psychic mediums use different methods to communicate with spirit beings from other dimensions, including tarot cards reading, crystal balls, palmistry, or psychometric to facilitate communications.

What is the cost of services that a psychic medium provides?

The psychic mediums provide either free insights or they may charge their customers. The insight may be free when a customer visit them, so they focus and direct their energy channel to strengthen their sixth sense.  The ones provided for money usually occur in form of dreams they have from time to time.

Successful  psychic mediums are able to interpret and read the energy forces surround human being, and they use the same elements to perceive spiritual beings . They also use their strong energy channels along with their strong sixth sense to communicate with the passed ones spirits as they are still alive. Their developed sixth sense help them to understand and interpret the spirits’ emotions and feeling.

What mechanism does a psychic medium use?

We all know the mechanism that  a camera uses to work. The camera takes the picture, convert the picture into an electrical signals to be transmitted through a computer to a light signal.

The mechanism that psychics use to see into the future is similar to the mechanism of a camera. They take pictures of the future and the pictures are transmitted through space to their minds.

The service provided by psychics mediums became today valuable and more and more people every day are seeking psychics to help their communicate with the spirits either to see the future or to communicate with their loved ones from the other side, and the number of customers increase every day encouraged by people who tried the service and left good reviews and testimonials about the experience they had and the information they got.

How to develop your abilities to be a psychic medium?

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A psychic medium help us communicate with our beloved ones who have passed away to have answers to our unresolved questions, and they also help us see into the future. They use different methods to see future’s insights such as Tarot card reading, Crystal ball, palmistry, and psychometric.

We communicate all the time with our loved ones and they respond to us, however we can’t hear them just because we don’t have the ability to hear spirits from the far side. Or maybe we just need to work on our listening abilities and develop them.

If you want to become a psychic medium, here are some information about how to develop your abilities and skills.

Believe in your abilities:

Many believe that only people with special gifts or powers are able to connect with the spiritual beings, while higher communication only require attention and practice. We all have the tools and abilities to make those connections, all what we need is belief in our abilities and Practice!

Believing in your abilities is the first step in developing your skills. If you don’t believe, then find something else to do.

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Practice, practice, practice!

The second thing you need to do is to work on your abilities and develop your skills. So, how to develop your skills as a medium? Just follow the next few steps:

Relax!

Did you know that experiencing symptoms such as anxiety, vivid nightmares or depression may block third eye or sixth chakra?

So, first thing you need to do is to free up your mind and relax!

10 minutes every day!

Then, you need to do is to find 10 minutes every day to practice! Bring a candle from any type and light it. Sit in front of it and relax. Clear your mind and sit still. Try to sit quietly as long as possible and ask connecting with God.

Heighten your five senses.

The more heightened your five senses are, the more developed are your abilities. Take another 5 minutes to work on your five senses every day. Taste, smell, touch, hear, and feel in a different way. FOCUS is the key, try to focus and sense things around you in a different way.

Connect with your loved one!

Light your candle and sit in your quiet place and ask for your loved one to come. Relax and wait to see what happens. Don’t panic! Just believe in your abilities and observe. See and hear, then write it down after you finish. Write down your observations, and the more you practice the more you see and hear. They may not answer you immediately, but they may come to you in your dreams to hear what they need to tell you. They are everywhere around you. They just transformed to a different form of energy.

Following these easy 3 steps is what the professional psychic mediums did early in their career. They just believed in their abilities and developed their skills every day until they became what they are. So, never give up and work on your abilities.

Understanding Channeling and Mediums

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downloadSince the dawn of civilization, we have always made a concerted effort to communicate with the spiritual realm. Mystical practitioners specialized in this art, acting as receivers of the messages sent from the other side. Nowadays we call these mystics “mediums”. The act of communicating with the spirit world is called “channeling”.

To open the pathways of communication, most mystics engage is some form of meditation. Meditation  creates mental focus, elevating the medium’s mind until they can hear and understand spiritual messages.

Channeling can look different for different mediums. Some go into a trance-like state, speaking and using the mannerisms of the spirit they connect to. Some mediums receive messages telepathically, as in directly into the mind. They are then able to vocalize these messages to others.

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As magical as this sounds, it is not an exact science. Spirits still have free will, and do not always respond when called upon. And in many cases, the response you get may not correspond to the question you first asked. They offer what they feels must be shared, and the relevance to you may not be apparent right away.

Because our plane and the spiritual plane of existence are on such different levels, it may be difficult for the medium or you to understand the message that is sent. This depends on how close the spirit and medium can get to the same wavelength of energy. It really depends mostly on the spirit, because the living can only vibrate so high. We have our limits on this plane of existence. The spirit may or may not lower it’s vibrations to meet the medium in the middle. You can always try again at another time and see if the lines of communication are clearer then. Channeling is a talent and a skill, but by no means is it an exact science.

Changing your mantra can change your life

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We talk to ourselves every day. It’s only normal. It’s part of our nature as humans. The thing is to tune ourselves in to what we are saying and if the message we are spouting is positive. As we know, words are powerful. As long as we know were are talking to ourselves, we have to ask
What’s the message
Once we know the message, it’s actually quite easy to reshape them to help us change our lives and outlook. Take a moment to examine what you are saying. Is it a positive message or is it a negative message masquerading as matter of fact statement? It may seem petty, but how do you talk to yourself?

Your mantra can shape your mood and strength

Have you been telling yourself the same thing over and over for years? If you have, it may be time for a change. Just as you have changed over the past few years, so have your psychological needs.

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Ask yourself a few questions to see if you need a change:

  1. Are you happy?
  2. Are you healthy?
  3. Are you using your creativity in a satisfying way?
  4. Are you enjoying your life?
  5. Are you having fun with your friends?
  6. Are you financially solvent?
  7. Do you like your job?
  8. Do your friends treat your well?
  9. Can you handle a crisis?
  10. Do you set aside resources for the future
  11. Are you self-assured?

It is no accident that there are 11 questions. Eleven is the number that is linked to enlightenment.  If the answer to any of these is no, then you need to change your message so that you can grow stronger.

A mantra is something you can say to yourself out loud or in your mind.  It is always a good idea to have a stock of positive things you can tell yourself when you need a bit of peace in your life.

Each mantra can serve a different purpose.  If you can’t seem to find a solution and have tried your hardest, a good mantra might be, “Make it work.”

images (6)If you are feeling overwhelmed and overwrought, you can just tell yourself, “ I am bigger than my problems.”

If you are prone to panic, you can say, “Today I will live in the moment.” to help you get focused.

If you are facing a challenge, you can remind yourself of how hurdles and obstacles make you rise higher than you imagined.

Remind yourself take care of yourself and be kind.

Strength and Positivity

Our worlds are full of noise. If we use them properly, mantras can help us filter through this noise so we can grow through our strength and positivity.  It is the best way to take care of ourselves, mentally and spiritually.

Do You Believe in Ghosts?

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The concept of ghosts and haunting is a topic an array of people find interesting, including me. Through this blog, I will share my personal experiences and the experiences of others, as we try to draw conclusions about what lies beyond based on what we know and learn.fear-of-ghosts-5666_1

When you read, see or hear the word “ghost,” what image does your brain conjure? What thoughts do you have in your mind? If you’re like a lot of people, you may think of how ghosts are portrayed in TV, film, literature an pop culture. There’s the movie, Ghost, with Demi Moore and the late Patrick Swayze. There’s Marley’s ghost in A Christmas Carol, and there are a ton of ghost hunting shows on television. Sometimes ghosts are portrayed as harmless spirits and other times they’re portrayed as malevolent.

Ghost and Haunting Defined 

The word “ghost” is defined as: the soul of a dead person; a disembodied spirit imagined as a vague, shadowy or evanescent form wandering among or haunting living persons. In all of my years as a professional psychic and medium, this is the first time I’ve ever looked up that word in the dictionary! I also looked up “haunting,” and it is defined as: remaining in the consciousness; not quickly forgotten.

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In my experience (and the research agrees), most hauntings are not negative experiences. They are often nothing more than emotional imprints. An emotional imprint is energy that is left in the energetic field of a place. It’s like a distinct marking of an event that contained heightened emotions. Have you ever heard of the hitchhiking ghost who walks along the road where they were struck and killed? If you see that ghost, what you’re actually seeing is the emotional imprint that event created. It does not mean that the spirit of the person is stuck wandering that stretch of road for all eternity. It’s just that the emotional energy of the event is sealed in that place.

Everything Has Energy

Everything has energy and is surrounded by energy. It’s like a photograph—a moment in time has been captured and is being viewed. When it comes to ghosts, that “photograph” is being viewed over and over again. Once the story is shared, others become more open to viewing it. This is how the story of a haunting begins.

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We tend to think of ghosts as earthbound spirits, but just because spirits are around us, it doesn’t mean they’re earthbound. Because spirits no longer inhabit a physical body, they are not easily noticed. So when we notice them, we think it’s a special event—a haunting! However, it’s important to note that the reason we often see ghosts is because they are working to be seen! They may be trying to connect with you because they want to tell you something. Or, if they lived in the house you live in now, they could just be making their presence known. Or you could just be seeing the imprint they’ve left behind. How can you tell the difference? I just ask the ghost! But you have to be willing to listen for the answer. Sometimes the answer comes in a direct way. Many times it comes as pictures in your mind, a feeling within or as something that happens down the road.

Helping, Not Harming 

Another thing to know is that spirits are usually looking to help, not harm. If their presence makes you uncomfortable, politely ask them to back off and tell them that they are making you nervous. Generally, they will oblige. But if you feel like you’re being haunted, or know that you’re being haunted and would like help getting the spirit to back off or would like to communicate with them directly, a psychic medium is your best bet.

Who’s haunting you?

How Important are Your Dreams?

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Dreams are both baffling and mysterious.  It can be maddening to try understand them.  This may be due to the fact that the dreams themselves seem to switch meaning from one moment to the next.  Our dreams can be so vivid they must mean something.

Enjoy Dreaming

Keep-Dreaming

To help you understand yourself and your feelings, pay close attention to your dreams.  Your dreams can give you insight but also provide you with an escape, sort of a virtual amusement park.  You can learn to enjoy your dreams by journaling or otherwise recording your dreams.  You can also learn how to lucid dreams; this means to be aware of what you are dreaming and maybe even control the dreams themselves.   If you let your dreams entertain you, you can change your mood and add some positivity to your life

A Source of Knowledge

Dreams can provide you with information.  This information is available to anyone who can decode the dreams. We can learn things about ourselves by deciphering what lies in our sleeping consciousness. This is because we reveal our true feelings while we are asleep.

Multiple Levels of Meaning

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Understanding how you associate words or symbols and their meanings, you can start to understand your dreams. Some even dream about an illness before it manifests itself in reality. 

Dream Dictionaries and Journals

You are the only one who can know for certain what you dreams truly mean.  You may find help by using a Dream Dictionary or consulting a dream interpreter, but only you can make the final decision about what your dreams really mean.  This is where a dream journal can truly help.

 Understanding the Message

However you chose to understand or enjoy your dreams, know that they are a part of you and are ultimately connected to your happiness and health.

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What is I Ching and it’s History

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Diagram_of_I_Ching_hexagrams_owned_by_Gottfried_Wilhelm_Leibniz,_1701The I Ching itself began life as the Chou I, or Changes of Chou. It was the oracle of the Chou people, which they brought together at the time when they were working to overthrow the corrupt Shang dynasty. Brilliant research by Steve Marshall (published in The Mandate of Heaven) has evoked the social and spiritual turmoil of these times – and even suggested a date when a total solar eclipse gave the Chou king Wu his mandate to invade: June 20th, 1070BC.

The Chinese I Ching, or Book of Changes in English, represents sixty-four archetypes that make up all the possible six-line combinations of yin and yang, called hexagrams.Yin/yang is the fundamental duality of the Universe whose dynamic tension gives shape to all phenomena and the changes they go through. Examples of the yin/yang polarity are female/male, earth/heavens, dark/light, in/out, even/odd, and so on. The interpretations of the sixty-four hexagrams describe the energy of human life divided into sixty-four types of situations, relationships or dilemmas. Each hexagram can be analyzed in a number of ways. Divide the six-line forms in half and you get trigrams (three yin or yang lines) that represent the Chinese version of the eight fundamental elements: sky, earth, thunder, wind, water, fire, mountain, and lake. These eight trigrams, known as “Hua,” also serve as the compass points in the ancient art of placement known as Feng Shui (pronounced fung-shway).

The I Ching is the oldest of all the classical divination systems. It is also one of the oldest books in the world. Its first interpretive text was composed around 1000 B.C. The I Ching’s actual discovery and much of its early history are the stuff of legends.

There are a number of myths surrounding the origins of the eight trigrams and the development of the I Ching divination system. In one tale, Fu Hsi, the first emperor of China (2852–2737 B.C.), is said to have observed a turtle emerging from the Yellow River. Knowing that true wisdom came from the direct and close observation of nature, he had a sudden realization of the significance of eight symbols he saw on the turtle’s back. He saw how the sets of three solid or broken lines, the trigrams, reflected the movement of energy in life on Earth.

images (11)A similar myth describes Fu Hsi’s contemplation of other patterns in nature, including animals, plants, meteorological phenomena, and even his own body. These myths describe how he identified the trigrams that arose from his understanding of the connection of all things, through the interplay of yin and yang.

There is evidence of early Chinese divination where tortoise shells were heated over a flame until they cracked, with the emerging patterns (presumably trigrams) being read. In some cases the shells were marked with their interpretations and stored for reference, and I have had the privilege of seeing a few of them preserved at the National Museum in Taiwan, China.

Another version also involving tortoise shells describes descendents of the “many Fu” — an ancient clan of female diviners — who read the shells of live turtles. According to the legend, they became the queens and royalty of the Shang Dynasty — which had been considered mythical until archeological evidence proving its existence was unearthed in 1899. Some say Lao Tzu, the enlightened forefather of Taoism and the author of the Tao Te Ching, was a descendent of this clan.

The Taoist/Confucian tradition posits that juxtaposing a set of the possible permutations of yin and yang with elements of Chinese creation mythology produced the foundation of the I Ching. Pairing up the various combinations of yin (the literal ancient meaning of which is the shady north side of the hill) and yang (meaning the sunny south side of the hill) gives you four primary symbols. With the addition of another yin or yang line, the eight trigrams emerge.

The earliest composition of I Ching interpretations is attributed to King Wen. Toward the end of the Shang Dynasty, when the unjust emperor Zhou Wang imprisoned Wen, he reportedly used his confinement to meditate on the trigrams, pairing them up to produce sixty-four possible hexagrams. Each pair of trigrams took on a meaning specific to their combination. In what we might assume was an enlightened state of mind, King Wen assigned each of the sixty-four hexagrams a name, adding a few sentences to explain its meaning. It is said that his son, King Wu, added additional interpretative text, bringing the I Ching closer to its current form.

Confucius, who came a few hundred years later, was possibly the I Ching’s greatest patron, taking the interpretative texts to the next level with the addition of his extensive commentaries. Confucius was primarily interested in the I Ching as a manual for how to live a life of the highest virtue, as opposed to its usefulness as a divination system. According to his Analects (VII, xvi), Confucius, who lived to be an old man, is reputed to have said, “If some years were added to my life, I would devote fifty of them to the study of the oracle, and might then avoid committing great errors.”

64hexagramsHistorical evidence substantiates the theory that the Book of Changes and its sixty-four hexagrams were part of an ancient oral tradition that predates recorded history in China. The basics of the I Ching text — the names of the hexagrams and their judgments — were likely composed in the eighth century B.C. However, the practice of using the hexagrams to refer to specific interpretations probably didn’t occur until the fifth century B.C. Between 475 and 221 B.C. (known as the Warring States period), the I Ching texts were consolidated into a book to make it easier to consult and share with others during that time of extreme upheaval. Shortly after, the I Ching was spared in the Ch’in Dynasty’s massive book burning because it was considered one of the five “Great Classics.”

The Book of Changes was canonized and studied intently by scholars during the Han Dynasty of 202 B.C.–A.D. 220. Between the third century B.C. and the turn of the millennium, significant additions, known as the ‘Wings’, were written regarding the individual lines in the hexagrams, and the meaning of the trigrams. These commentaries are generally attributed to Confucius, who lived around 500 B.C. More work was done, and the I Ching we use today is not substantially different from the 168 B.C. version. The main difference is that the hexagrams appear in a different order. The order in use today was first proposed around 100 B.C., but was not the standard until the third century A.D.

Throughout what we know of Chinese history, the rulers of China, as well as the general public, used the I Ching as best they could before printing was available. It is woven into the fabric of this ancient culture and its influence has been fundamental to the Eastern worldview as a whole. It has only been in the last 150 years or so that Western culture was even exposed to basic Taoist concepts — such as German and English translations of the I Ching and Tao Te Ching. Carl Jung’s explanation of the I Ching’s psychological validity and value, and the widespread open-mindedness about all things spiritual during the 1960s, made using the I Ching a common experience in the Western world.

Nowadays, the most common method for casting the I Ching involves tossing three coins six times to create the six-line pattern, or hexagram. A traditional technique for deriving a hexagram, dating from about 500 B.C., involves a fairly complicated process of selecting and sorting fifty sticks, usually yarrow stalks. The best yarrow stalks for this were the ones that grew on Confucius’ grave, but the supply was limited! After the coins or stalks are tossed and sorted out, one looks up the interpretation in the sacred book.

Fun Facts about Dreams

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Almost everyone dreams, but they are often viewed as dangerous or mysterious.  Dreams can last from a mere few seconds or even as long as the standard TV show.   Most people go through three to five dreams each night. These dreams manifest during the REM stage of sleep.  During this stage, the brain is almost as active as it is when you are awake.  Even though dreaming is common, there are a few fun and interesting facts that you may not know:

  • You only remember about 10% of your dreams. Some keep a journal at the ready to help record the dream, because once you have been awake for a few minutes, most of the dream is gone.  Sigmund Freud had a theory that because dreams are repressed feelings, our subconscious doesn’t want us to remember so they are forgotten.
  • Men have fewer nightmares than women. Recent studies show that, generally speaking, women have more nightmares. Women also have more emotionally intense dreams.
  • Those who stay up late have more nightmares. Studies show that those who generally stay up and wake up late have bad dreams. It is thought that this is due to a build up of stress related cortisol and fighting against circadian rhythms.
  • download (9)Your dream may contain the next big invention. Many students have reported that if they are consciously focusing on a problem as they are
    going to sleep, they continue to dream about the problem, sometimes even finding a solution.
  • You may be burning calories while you sleep. Another dream study showed that those who sleep deeply and dream more ate less. this leads to the possibility that rest is good for dieters.
  • People with clinical depression may have more enjoyable dreams. A Rush University study showed that depressed subjects had short and pleasant dreams, but those who did not have this diagnosis had almost brutal dreams.
  • Pregnant women may be aided by their nightmares. An Italian study shows that women who had unsettling dreams about birth actually had shorter labor when giving birth.
  • Dreams of violence may be sent to warn you. Night terrors or other  disrupted dreaming may indicate a brain disorder.
  • Dreams can relieve stress. During REM sleep, the brain has showed a decrease in the levels of stress chemicals.
  • Recurring dreams are very common. There are over fifty regular themes that recur in dreams.
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  • 18ixc3xvxg0d9jpgDreams are about sex are very common. For everyone. An equal number of men and women have dreams about sex.
  • Dreams aren’t always in color. By estimate , 10% of people dream in black and white.
  • You can be paralyzed by your dreams. During the REM stage, the body is suppressing the neurotransmitters that help you move. Thus, you are essentially paralyzed when you re dreaming.
  • Pets also dream Anyone who has watched a dog’s paws twitch while they are sleeping knows that animals also have REM sleep and do dream.
  • There is a science to understanding dreams Oneirology, is the study of dreams.
  • Blind people dream. Because dreams are largely symbolic, it is perfectly reasonable that blind people can dream. Their dreams focus on the other senses for input.
  • download (10)People who have stopped smoking have more vivid dreams. One third of people who have quit smoking dream that they are in the act of enjoying a cigarette.
  • Deja Vu is a real experience. Even those who are skeptical about psychic phenomena report having feelings of seeing or experiencing things as if they have felt them before. This feeling may be the result of a precognitive dream.
  • It is likely that you know the cast of characters in your dreams. Even if you do not know everyone you see in your dreams, it is likely that you have seen their faces at one time or another in your lifetime.
  • Dreams can blend into the real world. Your brain can take sensory input and incorporate them into your dream. It is not uncommon that sounds and smells can fold gently into an ongoing dream.

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How to Find Your Personal Path to Success

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download (5)Finding your perfect job, career and life may be easier said than done, but with strong commitment, focus and effort it is possible. Luckily, your return on investment should far outweigh the toil.

What would you give to have your perfect job, career, and life?

People who are happiest and most fulfilled live what is the perfect job, career and life for them. This does not mean living their life would be perfect for you. Like a snowflake, perfection is defined individually. It is achievable for anyone willing to put the effort into defining, discovering and pursuing it.

Who doesn’t want to be considered successful? But success doesn’t happen for everyone because not all people realize that there are different paths to success and each person’s path differs for the next person’s path. And the path isn’t always a straight line. A person may have to travel on many different paths through life—some will lead to dead ends while others will take a person in a completely different direction. How you use this time determines whether or not you find the success you are after.

images (15)Listen for the Winds of Change

It can be said that procrastination is the means for dealing with the things you don’t want to do. If you find your success is stagnating, it might just mean it’s time for change. Few people will ever find their path to success, if they fail to recognize when they are on the wrong path. How many times have you heard the phrases, “I shouldn’t have stayed there so long.” and “I was miserable all those years.” While we all have to do things we don’t want to, there are very few situations where you really have no other choice. Find a career and life goal that means something to you, and you’ll probably discover you’re not as much of a procrastinator as you thought you were.

Make Do With What You Have

Everybody has to start from somewhere, and it is rarely near the top. Your path to success may start on a very humble road. But that shouldn’t matter. As long as you have faith in your destiny and take pride in your work, no matter how great or small, your good deeds will eventually get noticed. Thoughts like, “This isn’t worth my time.” or “This is beneath me.” will only crush your success. Make the most of every opportunity. You never know what will either get noticed or lead you in the direction of what you are meant to do.

images (17)Define What Success Means to You

People spend a lifetime reaching for goals they believe are what everybody should want. However, only you know what will make you a success. The only way to maximize your potential is to take time to understand what it is that you need. Forget about what society tells you and ask yourself what brings you joy on a day-to-day basis. Happiness comes from your inner core. While you may not have control over every moment in your life, you do have control over what these events mean to you. Be prepared to do some thinking, as this may be something you don’t allow yourself to do very often.

Define Your Goals

Along your path to success you will need to discover what it is that you want. Ask yourself questions about what you want and what would make you feel good. Then ask yourself how you can make this happen. A goal is a tangible thing that leads to a feeling. So, your goal wouldn’t be to be happy, but accomplishing your goal would make you happy. Your goal wouldn’t be to be in love. Your goal would be to find someone you can be in a long-term relationship with. Finding that relationship would make you happy.

images (16)Take a Risk

People live much of their lives on the sidelines because they are afraid that if they act outside of the box, someone will disapprove. We prefer getting approval from others, as this is something we are taught from a young age. We quickly learn how unpleasant it can be when an adult scolds us for not following the rules. However, you are stifling your creativity by continuing to live for the approval of others. Learn to say no, take risks when it involves something you want, and be the person who makes you comfortable. You will discover a world of new possibilities once you do!

Forgiving Your Mistakes, and Giving Yourself Permission to Succeed

With risk comes failure. In other words, along your path of action you are going to come across many mistakes. The important thing is to perceive these moments as being “necessary to a worthwhile achievement” (Henry Ford), otherwise, you may lose sight of your path, become afraid of rejection and find yourself back at the beginning of this article. You should never be afraid to take a risk because you’re afraid of being rejected. Fear is simply the result of failing to do anything!