Grieving Through the Loss of a Loved One


Have you ever lost someone that you love in your life such as a mother, father, sibling, spouse, or someone else? Maybe you felt that you miss them with everything in you and your heart is always feeling at a loss. When someone dies and you realize that they are gone, it might cause a darkness to wash over you.

Are They Really Gone

As a psychic or a medium, you might realize that there are spirits in this world. The spirit of a person can make a psychic wonder if the person that has died has really left them or if they are going to always be there. The energy that pulls the heart strings and causes there to be grief might never leave the person, even if the know that the spirit is still there with them.

Someone dies everyday and this means that everyday someone loses someone. It can be a mother that gave birth to you and no matter who the person is or what relationship status you had; you might realize that you miss this person. If you had a mom that you have lost that was controlling, passionate, toxic, bad or anything else, she is the one that raised you and when she passes, it can be hard to deal with. It can be difficult to deal with the death of anyone that you love, and grieving can cause there to be a loss that is unique to each person.

Most people will grieve and will feel angry at least once in the situation. Other people will withdraw themselves and might seem quiet while they try to heal. Even if you miss someone that has died, you need to remember them.

Were they funny? Smart? Troublemakers? Serious? Each person is going to be different and will guide you along your path in life in a different way. The thing is many psychics believe that you can communicate with spirits even after they leave the earth, and this isn’t just for a mom but for anyone that dies.

Sharing a Legacy

If you have lost a loved one, know that the passing is real, and you will still love that person. They will be someone that you remember for the rest of your life. Most will remember the beautiful times but sometimes they will remember other times as well. As a medium, this kind of psychic is able to speak beyond the world into the spiritual world. They can ask the spirits to come, and they will be able to talk to the spirits.

Some mediums will use special tools such as tarot cards or other tools in order to do a spiritual reading. This is a time that they can call to the spirits that have passed away and sometimes the spirits will come to talk back.

When They Hear You

A medium will try and communicate with a spirit and the spirit can hear them. They can give signs that they are there and that the person that passed away can leave a sign that they are okay or that they are doing fine.

Dealing with the Death of a Loved One

Rather you have lost a mother or someone else in your life, here are some ways that you can deal with that death, and you can deal with the grief of your loss:

  • Remember Them

It is important that you remember that person and you don’t forget who they are or what it felt like when they were here. Even if you need to cry when you think of them, do that, and don’t fight the memories that come.

  • Let Healing Happen

Don’t rush through your healing and let it happen. It takes your mind, body, and spirit time to recover when you are grieving just like when you are recovering from a sickness. Let yourself grieve and make sure that you’re taking care of yourself along the way.

  • Schedule

Schedule things in your life that you need to do so that you don’t become unbalanced or withdrawn. Make sure that you’re doing the things that you have to do each day and that you are battling past any depression that tries to settle in.

  • Talk to a Medium

If you need to, you can talk to a psychic medium that can help you to communicate with your dead loved one. You can ask them to help you to have peace and to talk to the spirit about healing and about excitement and peace. You can sometimes even talk to the spirits when you do a mediumship reading.

  • Talk to Them

Even if you can’t see them, your loved one can hear you and you can speak to them. Talk to them like they are there in front of you. If you need to, write a letter to them, and tell them how you feel.

  • Communication After Passing

When someone dies that you love you will miss them. You might feel them close to you right away though and this is a time that you can speak to them, and you can feel close to them. Some people get so deep in their grief that they forget to get out of bed, and they just dwell in their own depression. You might wish that you could hold your loved one and that you could feel them close to you. There are ways that you can communicate with your loved one after they die:

  • Honor Them

Start by honoring the person that you have lost. Notice if you smell their perfume or if you hear their favorite song on the radio. This is part of your healing, and you need to notice these things.

  • Make Their Favorite Food

Take time to make their favorite food dish. This can be something that they loved to cook or something that you loved to cook for them.

  • Talk to a Psychic

Talk to a psychic that can help you to communicate with your loved one that has passed on.

  • Read or Watch Their Favorite Thing

Read their favorite book or watch their favorite movie or show on television. This can help you to remember the fun times that you had sharing things together.

  • Say Hello

At any time, both morning or night, you can speak to the spirit, and you can tell them good morning or goodnight. This gives you a chance to communicate like they are still with you.

Are They Trying to Contact You?

There are some signs that your loved one might be trying to contact you. If you feel that they are close to you, you will feel excitement, and this is something that you need to acknowledge. Don’t be afraid if they come to you and learn to embrace it without fear. Here are some ways you might notice them:

  • Electrical Faults

One of the easiest ways for the spirit world to contact you is through electricity. You might be sitting there thinking about how sad you are, and they could show up by flickering the lights on and off. This can also happen if the television flickers or changes channels or if there is just something strange that is getting your attention.

  • Feeling Them

You might be someone that is more in tune with the spiritual world and if you are you might actually feel their presence around you. This can feel like they are tapping you on the shoulder or that they are standing in the room with you. Some people will even hear the spirits speak to them.

  • Changes in Temperature

A spirit can come and can cause the temperature to change around you so that they can get your attention. If you feel that the room has gotten hotter or colder out of nowhere, this can be a sign that they are trying to show you that they are there.

  • Dreams

Some spirits will come in your dreams because this is one of the easiest ways that they can communicate with you. The things that they say are important and you need to pay attention to what is being said and how in the dream. Note every detail of the dream and write it down. This can allow you to go back and figure out more about what the spirit was trying to tell you.

A spirit will come to you to show you love and comfort and not to harm you or to hurt you even more. They want to communicate with you and just because their body dies, it doesn’t mean that their soul dies with them.

Dealing with the Death of a Mother on Mother’s Day

If you are someone that has lost your mother and you have to deal with things like “Mother’s Day,” there are things that you can do to remember your mom even if she has passed on to the other side. Don’t stop celebrating her just because she isn’t with you and learn to open your heart and loving her on that day. Avoiding things like birthdays, holidays and other special days will only make you grieve more and will only make your heart sadder. Don’t be afraid to celebrate and do it in a way that you feel the best.

There are no rules that you have to follow these days and you can do whatever you want. Go to her grave, sing her a song, write her a letter, or just take time to embrace memories that you have of her. Don’t avoid these days because it will only make it harder for you to move forward if you do.


  1. The article provides some thoughtful suggestions on how to cope with grief and keep the memory of loved ones alive. Though I’m skeptical about mediums, I understand their appeal to some.

    • I agree, Judith. While I’m also skeptical about mediums, the idea of keeping memories alive through various activities can be very comforting for those in mourning.

  2. It’s important to remember that grieving takes time and should not be rushed. Allowing oneself to feel the emotions and going through the process is essential for healing.

  3. Grief is a complex emotion, and everyone experiences it differently. The idea of finding ways to remember and honor a loved one seems like a positive step in the healing process.

  4. While the concept of psychic mediums is fascinating, it’s also crucial to seek support from family, friends, or professional counseling when dealing with the death of a loved one.

  5. The concept of communicating with deceased loved ones through mediums is an intriguing one. While I haven’t personally experienced it, I can see how it might provide comfort to those who are grieving.


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